I’d be thrilled to hear your thoughts, since it will not only help me create better material for you, but also get to know you better.
As a gesture of thanks for participating in the survey, I’ve put ebook on sale for 67% off in all territories for the next 72 hours only (sale ends at midnight Sunday Sept 24). To put that in perspective, a mocha or latte at Starbucks costs .15, and an hour of parking in San Francisco or New York City costs . On the other hand, you get to keep this book (which, incidentally, has helped tens of thousands of women) for under 3 beans.
By far, the biggest challenge the respondents encountered was meeting quality men.
Your reactions to the “Bad Boys & Addictions” article was swift and enthusiastic.
Turns out that almost every woman has had some kind of experience with bad boys, not all of them healthy. ” Here’s one from Theresa: This post really hit me.
All of this subconscious presentation and filtering is lost in online dating; all we have are our words and our photos, so we have to consider how to craft as attractive a snapshot of ourselves as possible.
In online forums and gaming – where many people meet their partners – how we express ourselves and our personality acts as the initial attractors.
Most gratifying were the responses from some of you saying, “Omigod, this is happening to me right now! I’m in a similar situation; however, I believe he’s the first man I’ve ever truly loved.
He has commitment issues and will never really settle down with me.
Studies show that between 75% to 93% of communication is non-verbal.
When we meet somebody in person, we have hundreds of thousands of verbal and non-verbal clues to give us an intuitive grasp of who we’re talking to and whether or not we’re into them long before we go up and introduce ourselves.
In the beginning I was still hung up on Bad Boy, but distraction and detox (no contact with Bad Boy) really worked. Some of you were kind enough to answer my 60-second survey question: What is the single biggest challenge you’re dealing with in dating and relationships these days?
When Bad Boy reached out to me 16 months later, the addiction was genuinely dead, and I could authentically say f*** off. A’s excellent advice, detox from your Bad Boy, and if you can, find something or someone that can pull you forward into the present or the future — rather than some wistful past that you’ve idealized. If you wanted to answer but didn’t get around to it, you can do it now here.
Many of the things that drive people away from online dating can be headed off at the pass with some preparation.